javi_spears Posted July 23, 2014 #1 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 Soooo I´ve been M.I.A. some time now But it was for a reason I´ve met a guy a few weeks ago, and even we only saw once we´ve been talkin all day long for weeks now, we had a date and it was super sweet, he is so romantic and cute omg Its been a year since my last serious relationship, and I think I´m falling in love with this guy, I haven´t felt this way with any guy since my ex, and tbh it scares me a little, I trust this guy, we are so similar and he is amazing, but I am really afraid to be hurt again I just wanted to share it with someone sooo thanks for reading 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GlenCoco Posted July 23, 2014 #2 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 Soooo I´ve been M.I.A. some time now yeah i missed you plz come back more often Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GlenCoco Posted July 23, 2014 #3 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 tbh is hard to trust someone after beeing hurt, and after that we are very closed, very shy we are not like up to fall in love again we are afraid to be hurt... and i guess is normal .. but we have to let go a little and also you have to share it with the new guy cuz sometimes you will send the wrong message..... pero me da gusto que estes feliz y conozcas a alguien que vea por ti y sea romatico! jealous much..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Far Beyond Posted July 23, 2014 #4 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 take it slow and be open and honest with him from the start. It may help to write out your feelings on paper in a journal, and then go back and read them to see if your thoughts seem a little silly & where your head is. let it develop naturally, and if possible avoid the co-dependent thing where you spend every hour together. That usually leads to resentments, fights, and future issues. just my advice good luck...onward and upward Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 23, 2014 Author #5 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 yeah i missed you plz come back more often I know I missed you too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 23, 2014 Author #6 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 tbh is hard to trust someone after beeing hurt, and after that we are very closed, very shy we are not like up to fall in love again we are afraid to be hurt... and i guess is normal .. but we have to let go a little and also you have to share it with the new guy cuz sometimes you will send the wrong message..... pero me da gusto que estes feliz y conozcas a alguien que vea por ti y sea romatico! jealous much..... That´s the feeling yeah Muchas gracias <333 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 23, 2014 Author #7 Report Share Posted July 23, 2014 take it slow and be open and honest with him from the start. It may help to write out your feelings on paper in a journal, and then go back and read them to see if your thoughts seem a little silly & where your head is. let it develop naturally, and if possible avoid the co-dependent thing where you spend every hour together. That usually leads to resentments, fights, and future issues. just my advice good luck...onward and upward I have a blog to write now and then and it helps a lot yeah And I´m usually dependent so I have to be careful with that 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nineliveslikeakittycat Posted July 25, 2014 #8 Report Share Posted July 25, 2014 i know how you feel!! ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months and im having the same issue. i knew when we went on dates i liked him but i didnt feel "the spark" and i was so frustrated because i liked him but i could tell i wouldnt let myself fall then one night i felt "it" and i was so excited because that was the first milestone for me to put my heart back on the line and now i think im falling even more and starting to really trust him and it's exciting haha... he's going through a lot of shit right now but it's strengthening our bond and really building that foundation of trust and what not for our relationship. however i still think he's gonna tell me the L word first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoshLee Posted July 26, 2014 #9 Report Share Posted July 26, 2014 Ah philophobia. Don't worry you'll get over it. Trust is probably you're big issue right now and you're worrying too much. Just go with it at a slow pace and don't worry about what might happen. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out, don't worry you'll find someone else or he may ask for you to take him back just give it time and good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I Just Want More Posted July 27, 2014 #10 Report Share Posted July 27, 2014 Congrats :yaass: love shouldnt be scary, just stay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 27, 2014 #11 Report Share Posted July 27, 2014 omgod dont tell me about fear of love. i have the WORST fear of falling in love. but as britney always said, u have to take a chance at love because love is worth it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 28, 2014 Author #12 Report Share Posted July 28, 2014 i know how you feel!! ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months and im having the same issue. i knew when we went on dates i liked him but i didnt feel "the spark" and i was so frustrated because i liked him but i could tell i wouldnt let myself fall then one night i felt "it" and i was so excited because that was the first milestone for me to put my heart back on the line and now i think im falling even more and starting to really trust him and it's exciting haha... he's going through a lot of shit right now but it's strengthening our bond and really building that foundation of trust and what not for our relationship. however i still think he's gonna tell me the L word first Ikr? its scary and exciting at the same time 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 28, 2014 Author #13 Report Share Posted July 28, 2014 Ah philophobia. Don't worry you'll get over it. Trust is probably you're big issue right now and you're worrying too much. Just go with it at a slow pace and don't worry about what might happen. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out, don't worry you'll find someone else or he may ask for you to take him back just give it time and good luck Thaaanks I was thinking on the same Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 28, 2014 Author #14 Report Share Posted July 28, 2014 Congrats :yaass: love shouldnt be scary, just stay Thnx bb :bigsmile: I´ll try Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 28, 2014 Author #15 Report Share Posted July 28, 2014 omgod dont tell me about fear of love. i have the WORST fear of falling in love. but as britney always said, u have to take a chance at love because love is worth it Queen knows that fear I guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ValetGirls Posted July 28, 2014 #16 Report Share Posted July 28, 2014 Life's always more interesting when you say "yes" instead of "no" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nanananana Posted July 28, 2014 #17 Report Share Posted July 28, 2014 Fall in love with me tonight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 31, 2014 Author #18 Report Share Posted July 31, 2014 Life's always more interesting when you say "yes" instead of "no" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted July 31, 2014 Author #19 Report Share Posted July 31, 2014 Fall in love with me tonight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GlenCoco Posted August 2, 2014 #20 Report Share Posted August 2, 2014 how did you guys meet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steph Posted August 3, 2014 #21 Report Share Posted August 3, 2014 If you really really trust this person you should totally go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GlenCoco Posted August 8, 2014 #22 Report Share Posted August 8, 2014 where r u ! get back in here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted August 9, 2014 Author #23 Report Share Posted August 9, 2014 how did you guys meet? We have a friend in common and we started chatting via WA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted August 9, 2014 Author #24 Report Share Posted August 9, 2014 where r u ! get back in here I´m travelling, I live in the centre of Spain (Madrid) And I´m on the northern coast now (Asturias) Enjoying beach and summer :bigsmile: Tho I´ve had some problems with my BF because of the distance and some minor issues We started not too long ago so Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javi_spears Posted August 9, 2014 Author #25 Report Share Posted August 9, 2014 If you really really trust this person you should totally go for it. :blackoutsmiley:i He is my BF now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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