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martha

Do you believe in true love?

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i'm asking this because my me and my ex broke up a few months ago and every guy I dated before and after him ( i've been on 2 dates since we broke up) doesn't feel right.  What I mean is there's no connection; there's no spark.  I talk to other guys and yeah we have stuff common and i find them attractive but somethings always missing.  I don't get those same feelings I had with my ex.  There's no butterflies; nothing just emptiness.  I remember back in high school ( i graduated 4 years ago) the moment I met him I instantly felt something.  He even said the same thing too and we had everything in common. we could even finish each others sentences. we broke up b/c he moved away, but sometimes I think if i just wait he'll come around again like he did last year.  I just don't picture either of us being happy with out each other.  Whenever I watch this video it reminds me of him

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Well, sorry for the late reply, but I don't know what to believe anymore. I've been cheated on, stabbed in the back many times, and most of the time I can't recognize what's right and what's wrong, what's true and what's a lie. Me and my boyfriend love each other very much (been together for 3 years now), but my trust was shook so many times, I can't even trust myself most of the time. I just know I would die if he cheated on me or moved away, I'm constantly scared about those things. I'm sorry if my reply doesn't help you, but I don't know what else to tell you except what I've experienced so far.

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Don't worry you'll find someone. True love is real and I heard it's beautiful (I haven't experienced it yet cuz I'm only 15, 16 in a few weeks), but give it some time. You will go through a few people before you meet the right one and when you do, trust me it'll be AMAZING!!!! :D SO sorry what happened to you. I have memories that remind me of my gf wherever I go so you're not alone :) Good luck!

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I know true love exists. My grandparents have been together for 40+ years. She took him back after he cheated, and he never did again, even though to this day, she still doesn't let him touch her. (For a guy to stay with a woman who doesn't give him sex for 30 years and not cheat once... that's love, y'all.) He stayed with her after she got a hysterectomy and she's been his own personal nurse for the past five years. Their love isn't perfect or storybook love, but it's definitely real and it's totally true.

 

Before I knew about their troubled past, I honestly thought that I wanted what they have. Now that I know what they've been through together, I know I want a love that resilient, that powerful. I know I'll never get it, though. As common as it seemed to be years ago, true love seems as elusive as being as famous as Britney for most people.

 

So to answer your question... I believe in it. But do I believe I can have it, or even deserve it? That would take too much soul searching to answer right now. Safe to say, it's not as easy as movies make it seem.

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I'll just save you the trouble and break it to ya that it doesn't exist, and to fool yourself into thinking it is is hurtful to everyone involved

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i'm asking this because my me and my ex broke up a few months ago and every guy I dated before and after him ( i've been on 2 dates since we broke up) doesn't feel right.  What I mean is there's no connection; there's no spark.  I talk to other guys and yeah we have stuff common and i find them attractive but somethings always missing.  I don't get those same feelings I had with my ex.  There's no butterflies; nothing just emptiness.  I remember back in high school ( i graduated 4 years ago) the moment I met him I instantly felt something.  He even said the same thing too and we had everything in common. we could even finish each others sentences. we broke up b/c he moved away, but sometimes I think if i just wait he'll come around again like he did last year.  I just don't picture either of us being happy with out each other.

 

if its meant to be you will be back together just saying 

and yes i belive in true love humans where meant to be loved and where made with another half (not everyone finds it) and yes if we find the right perso and the other half there is always gonna be love, it evolves in diferent was but yes its love, love is real man.... but is to fucking hard to find it! hope we all are lucky that we find the one 

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I'd hope so, but I fathom it's hard to come by the unconditional, do anything for one another kind.

 

Fuck love, gimme diamonds

:lmfaoo:  :lmfaoo:  :lmfaoo:

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I don't think it's something that everybody gets to experience. So if you feel and experience it, don't take it for granted. A common mistake some people make is confusing love with something else

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I broke my 2 year relationship with my BF a year ago, and since then all the guys I dated didn´t feel right, I know what you´re feeling  :crying1:

 

 

But not long ago i found a guy, and I´m really excited once again and I think I´m falling in love again, I think what you must do is have patience, go meet 

 

some people, have fun, and don´t rush, you need to take a time to forget your ex. and to have some time for yourself, and then you´ll be able to

 

find love again :)

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love yourself first...

if not, then all of the connections or sparks cannot really happen so naturally...unless you expect to be rescued by a prince, and that is a heavy burden to place on a future love

 

You are just reliving your hurt, and you need to listen to Heart...seriously the lyrics are meaningful here...sometimes we'll get hurt, and right now it's our turn...

 

Love yourself, it's not a sin...Im serious though. Do you right now, heal up, get stronger than yesterday, and make the world yours

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I'll just save you the trouble and break it to ya that it doesn't exist, and to fool yourself into thinking it is is hurtful to everyone involved

True love does exist. My parents have been together since they were teens, let alone everyone on this site is approximately 25 and under so they wouldn't know. The problem is people tend to look in the wrong places. For instance, if you found someone you like in a club, I'm pretty sure that's not going to work out, or if you find someone that is into bad things such as alcohol, drugs, sleeping with random people, it's not going to work out. Saying true love doesn't exist is like saying good people don't exist. You have to find the right one and look for positive people.

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I broke my 2 year relationship with my BF a year ago, and since then all the guys I dated didn´t feel right, I know what you´re feeling  :crying1:

 

 

But not long ago i found a guy, and I´m really excited once again and I think I´m falling in love again, I think what you must do is have patience, go meet 

 

some people, have fun, and don´t rush, you need to take a time to forget your ex. and to have some time for yourself, and then you´ll be able to

 

find love again :)

exactly it doesn't "feel" right!!!!

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in my opinion "LOVE" is something amazing , more if the other person gives all for you <3 woow that's awesome! but love is hard at the same time, sometimes i feel sad and alone because of love  :crying1: 
but anyway im trying to be stronger! and good luck with it my friend, you'll find somebody special , just wait <3

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gurl u have fallen in love and got struck by a cupid big time. i honestly believe love happens ones. like people fall in love and thats it, they never fall out of it. thats how it happened with me and u kno what, u sound just like me so it could also b a one time thing. i mean idk maybe im wrong but yeah i completely believe true love exists. its the only thing that keeps me going in this life

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