ItsNathanbitch Posted October 8, 2014 #1 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 I guess it's a part of my social anxiety (which has improved over the last year or so), however I'm still terrible when it comes to making calls. I always have to write down a script of what I'm going to say and I always put off making a call for as long as I can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoshLee Posted October 8, 2014 #2 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 I hate it because I have to talk to someone plus I like texting more because I can just answer later and I don't always have to say what? Everytime I can't hear someone Also hope your social anxiety gets better each day! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolySpearit Posted October 8, 2014 #3 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 I don't hate making calls but I have a lot of anxiety over leaving voicemails.. I find myself re-recording voicemails 3 times and then if I still don't like something about it I delete it one last time and hang up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItsNathanbitch Posted October 8, 2014 Author #4 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 I hate it because I have to talk to someone plus I like texting more because I can just answer later and I don't always have to say what? Everytime I can't hear someone Also hope your social anxiety gets better each day! It depends on the person mainly. If I have to call someone I know, that's no problem. But if it's someone I don't know, it's extremely anxiety provoking. I suppose the more I do it though, the better I'll be at it. I prefer meeting people face to face, and yeah texting is better too. Aw thankyou! It's definitely not as bad as it used to be, it's just when it comes to phone calls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItsNathanbitch Posted October 8, 2014 Author #5 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 I don't hate making calls but I have a lot of anxiety over leaving voicemails.. I find myself re-recording voicemails 3 times and then if I still don't like something about it I delete it one last time and hang up. I'm not too bad with voicemails, mainly as I don't really have to do it that often, but it's mainly actually making a call in itself that I find so daunting But I can totally understand how you feel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miz Cracker Posted October 8, 2014 #6 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 It's not that i don't like making phone calls, i just get nervous as to what i have to say, especially when it comes to talking to my crush, i used to have a huge convo with him and now i just blank D: now I'm just texting, snapchatting and messaging him on FB, wannna meet him already D: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterXPosed Posted October 8, 2014 #7 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 I hate going on cam with people and or mic. It's so awkward sometimes lol. I really have to feel comfortable with that person to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miz Cracker Posted October 8, 2014 #8 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 I hate going on cam with people and or mic. It's so awkward sometimes lol. I really have to feel comfortable with that person to do it. Same here, it's like you're talking to yourself but at the same time it can be helpful to be more open to yourself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WeKeepOnRockin Posted October 8, 2014 #9 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 You wouldn't have survived before 2000. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItsNathanbitch Posted October 8, 2014 Author #10 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 It's not that i don't like making phone calls, i just get nervous as to what i have to say, especially when it comes to talking to my crush, i used to have a huge convo with him and now i just blank D: now I'm just texting, snapchatting and messaging him on FB, wannna meet him already D: That's sort of how I feel. But the reason I don't like making phone calls because I get nervous about what I have to say which is why I always have to prepare a script. Maybe try coming up with some things to talk about before you call him (sounds lame but I'm terrible at advice ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItsNathanbitch Posted October 8, 2014 Author #11 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 I hate going on cam with people and or mic. It's so awkward sometimes lol. I really have to feel comfortable with that person to do it. I've never done it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItsNathanbitch Posted October 8, 2014 Author #12 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 You wouldn't have survived before 2000. Well luckily I was only 5 in 1999. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miz Cracker Posted October 8, 2014 #13 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 That's sort of how I feel. But the reason I don't like making phone calls because I get nervous about what I have to say which is why I always have to prepare a script. Maybe try coming up with some things to talk about before you call him (sounds lame but I'm terrible at advice ) Hey something is something thankies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItsNathanbitch Posted October 8, 2014 Author #14 Report Share Posted October 8, 2014 Hey something is something thankies No problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OohLaLa Posted October 9, 2014 #15 Report Share Posted October 9, 2014 I hate it too. And I have to do phone calls at work. I try to absolutely avoid it I thought I was the only one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItsNathanbitch Posted October 9, 2014 Author #16 Report Share Posted October 9, 2014 I hate it too. And I have to do phone calls at work. I try to absolutely avoid it I thought I was the only one Oh gosh, how horrible Don't worry you're definitely not the only one! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Babydoll Posted October 9, 2014 #17 Report Share Posted October 9, 2014 I hate it too , because I don't like to talk that much and you know it's awkward when you wanna hang up, and the other person it's still talking Besides, I get really anxious before I do it Hope you'r social anxiety decrease Bb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Curious.Btfls Posted October 9, 2014 #18 Report Share Posted October 9, 2014 I guess it's a part of my social anxiety (which has improved over the last year or so), however I'm still terrible when it comes to making calls. I always have to write down a script of what I'm going to say and I always put off making a call for as long as I can. It depends on the person mainly. If I have to call someone I know, that's no problem. But if it's someone I don't know, it's extremely anxiety provoking. I suppose the more I do it though, the better I'll be at it. I prefer meeting people face to face, and yeah texting is better too. ME 2, i understand youu so much on this, it's really difficult for me too since i'm a little girl and back then I just couldnt escape by texting! I prepare a script for every call I have to do, (besides family and close friends but i get nervous too)...Even when i'm calling for a pizza I get anxious lol..but I try to push myself and make the calls when I have too and be spontaneous. Because otherwise it would make me loose my time for thinking too much about it. :zoey: It's definitely better to see people face 2 face Hope you get less anxiety and get better at making calls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItsNathanbitch Posted October 10, 2014 Author #19 Report Share Posted October 10, 2014 ME 2, i understand youu so much on this, it's really difficult for me too since i'm a little girl and back then I just couldnt escape by texting! I prepare a script for every call I have to do, (besides family and close friends but i get nervous too)...Even when i'm calling for a pizza I get anxious lol..but I try to push myself and make the calls when I have too and be spontaneous. Because otherwise it would make me loose my time for thinking too much about it. :zoey: It's definitely better to see people face 2 face Hope you get less anxiety and get better at making calls Glad to know I'm not the only one who makes script before calling But yeah it's so much easier talking to people in person. And thank you, I'm actually starting to get a bit better as I've had to make several calls recently which has helped me feel not as anxious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Curious.Btfls Posted October 10, 2014 #20 Report Share Posted October 10, 2014 Glad to know I'm not the only one who makes script before calling But yeah it's so much easier talking to people in person. And thank you, I'm actually starting to get a bit better as I've had to make several calls recently which has helped me feel not as anxious You're not alone, not alone, not alone!!! cool that's good, i'm happy for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaleFatale Posted October 14, 2014 #21 Report Share Posted October 14, 2014 I am actually bored of phonecalls and trying to prepare what I want to say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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