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Discussion: Polygamous & Open Relationships

Polygamous & Open Relationships  

16 members have voted

  1. 1. Would you ever have a polygamous or open relationship?

    • Yes, I would have a polygamous/open relationship where both me and my partner could date/hook up with others.
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    • Sort of, I would only want myself to be able to date/hook up with others, not my partner.
      1
    • Sort of, I wouldn't date/hook up with others but I'd let my partner.
      1
    • No, I only want monogamous relationships.
      14
  2. 2. Have you been in a polygamous or open relationship before?

    • Yes, both me and my partner could date/hook up with others.
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    • Sort of, only I could date/hook up with others, not my partner.
      0
    • Sort of, only my partner could date/hook up with others, not me.
      0
    • No, I've only been in monogamous relationships.
      11
    • No, I've never been in a relationship before.
      5


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Would you ever have a polygamous or open relationship where you and your partner could date other people at the same time? Or one where only one of you dated/hooked up with others? Or are you only interested in monogamous relationships?

 

Discuss. :coffee:

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I've been a manwhore for the past 2 years. Does that count as an open relationship, with all the chicks I've hooked up with? They didn't care :aintevenmad:

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It would hurt me for someone that I'm supposed to be in a relationship to have eyes for someone else. It's not so much jealousy but more the fact that if you want to see other people, then there is no point being in a relationship at all because IMO that is not what a true relationship is. I'm incredibly loyal (in a non-clingy/creepy way) and would want that same loyalty in return.

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Well not me i don't really want to share my BF i don't think there is true love or even real love in an open relationship...

i really like commitment and i'm a very jealous person so i would never do it, and if my bf asks me hell no! 

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Nope, never. I would get too jealous and paranoid and I wouldn't cope with it for long. 

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I think if you want an open relationship you should be single and fuck whoever you want  :ummm:

 

 

 

 

 

 

I am very romantic and a little bit jelous... I would suffer a lot if my partner hooked up with others  :crying1:

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Now, I get that alot of couple are into swinging (swapping partners with other partners sexually) and some, into sleeping with others. Me, personally, I don't get it. but each to there own. I feel a relationship should be about two people evolving there understanding, sensuality, affection and devotion between each other. You make a bond between yourselves. Sharing that bond just doesn't keep you connected as you would be monogamously. So, I just think commitment should be solely between two people. 

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