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Can You Be Gay and Asexual at the Same Time?

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I'm gay, I love men. I find them attractive but I think sex is overrated sometimes. 

 

Maybe I haven't found someone who excites me or I'm just not interested in a quick feel good moment. idk. 

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Those are two completely different things.

 

Your appetite for sexy things doesn't have to match others', but I do want to say that, usually, that's due to hormonal disorders (according to documentaries I've watched) so you should go check yourself with a doc.

It's completely normal for you to not be a lustful beast thinking about dick and/or ass 24/7 (aka me), but if you don't get an erection at least once a day then... :awk:

Tbh I'm not the right person to be telling you all this stuff because I'm a horny fucker so I wouldn't know what it is like to have a low sexdrive. :aintevenmad: 

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Probably, there's so many sexualities now (which I think some of them are stupid!) :mhm: But I'm just gonna say yes :tbh: 

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I think it's alright not wanting to fuck anyone the first time you meet them, but society has brainwashed people to the point of making them think there can't be love without sex from the very beggining.

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Yes. It's possible. 

 

I'm gay. I have no sex drive. Mostly because of my medications but that and I need commitment.

 

None of the guys in my area won't commitment, they just want a one night stand. However, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're asexual.

 

Asexuality means that you have no attraction to any gender. So I believe the term you're looking for is demisexual, which is where you only have sexual Tendencies towards someone if you personally know them, which is something that I identify as. Sort of. 

 

I don't like getting into these weird labels so I just say but I'm into dudes and I need a commitment.

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18 minutes ago, HeadstrongWolf said:

Yes. It's possible. 

 

I'm gay. I have no sex drive. Mostly because of my medications but that and I need commitment.

 

None of the guys in my area won't commitment, they just want a one night stand. However, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're asexual.

 

Asexuality means that you have no attraction to any gender. So I believe the term you're looking for is demisexual, which is where you only have sexual Tendencies towards someone if you personally know them, which is something that I identify as. Sort of. 

 

I don't like getting into these weird labels so I just say but I'm into dudes and I need a commitment.

 

Slay you smart! I think I'll join you. We're demisexuals :hug:

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